4-wk Helping Children with Loss (In-Person) · June 30, 2026
Rex was a very patient, laid back facilitator. As I work with children who are going through the family court system, the knowledge I gained through this program will help me see their behaviors as consequences of their many losses.
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One-on-One GRM Support (In-Person) · June 30, 2026
The program helped me learn about grief and helped me process the death of my child the better myself for my child to come
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One-on-One Support · March 27, 2026
Rex was an amazing person to work with on my GRM journey. Opening up at the level that I did, is not normal for me, and I definitely felt like I could trust Rex with opening my heart about my grief. He made me feel heard and he was always respectful of my emotions that arose during our classes. I believe everyone could benefit from the GRM.
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Support Groups · March 23, 2026
No concerns. He was an excellent listener and facilitator.
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Support Groups · February 26, 2026
Rex was top notch.
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Support Groups · February 25, 2026
Rex created a relaxed, low-pressure atmosphere for us participants. He brought chocolate and water bottles and plenty of tissues (and instructed us clearly that we were not to hand them to each other! Each person had their own box!). Rex was kind and non-judgmental. Thank you!
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group · November 6, 2025
The grief recovery method is effective in healing a broken heart and mending unresolved relationships. I highly recommend this program to anyone dealing with loss and relationships that have gone estranged.
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group · November 5, 2025
Rex Cearley was the absolute best facilitator. I learned a great deal, felt heard, and was very relaxed; a significant amount of healing occurred. His experience brought a great deal to our sessions together. He is a very valuable asset to your program and teaching.
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one-on-one · September 17, 2025
Rex was amazing! The most empathetic person I know. He gave me a safe space to share things I never have before.
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one-on-one · April 3, 2025
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group · March 26, 2025
As I said before, Rex's voice was comforting. He prepared us for the emotional experience we were going to have. and that comforting voice helped to bring us down after baring our hearts and souls to each other. I left each session feeling a little less burdened.
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group · March 12, 2025
Rex was an amazing leader. I’d recommend him to anyone!
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group · March 12, 2025
Rex was very clear about how he ran the group and was very inviting in his willingness to address my concerns, even when I felt he either didn't agree or may have been somewhat put off by my comments -- none of which were directed at him.
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one-on-one · February 7, 2025
Rex is amazing. He was there to listen without judgement and guide me through the GRM. Rex was great at explaining each assignment and always willing to offer a hug after a difficult conversation. I am so happy that I met him through this program.
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one-on-one · January 28, 2025
Rex Cearley the facilitator is very empathetic, knowledgeable, and takes time to explain the process of Grief Recovery Method.
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group · January 8, 2025
Would definitely recommend Rex, I honestly could not imagine the class being taught by anyone else
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group · September 18, 2024
Rex has been flexible in my duration of the program when I needed more time or struggled with an assignment he checked in to see if I needed extra help.
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one-on-one · August 21, 2024
Rex is just a great person all around! I was skeptical in the beginning before having our first meeting, that’s just me, and he never failed to make me feel heard. Rex is one of those people that really stick with you for a lifetime. He is dedicated to helping people and he helped me. I’ve been able to identify what I was and am feeling and be able to cope with it in a healthy way. I was able to close that circle of grief with a few things in my life and will continue to use many this knowledge for many years to come. Thank you, Rex!
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one-on-one · August 6, 2024
Rex functioned in a professional manner at all times while his genuine warmth and sincerity was always present. I assertained he was fully invested in guiding me to a positive outcome; this due to his personal belief in the benefit of the GRM.
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group · June 24, 2024
facilitator's empathy & listening skills built trust
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group · June 24, 2024
Rex was an amazing facilitator and allowed everyone space to process their emotions while keeping the class on track.
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group · June 24, 2024
Rex is wonderfully empathetic, a great listener (heart with ears), and helpful to those in the class who need support. I couldn't recommend him enough.
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one-on-one · June 13, 2024
I now have a better understanding on grief and how to heal
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one-on-one · May 29, 2024
Rex is fantastic! A role model of listening and empathy.
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group · May 6, 2024
Is it has an Understand the concept of grief
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one-on-one · April 30, 2024
Rex Cearley was the easiest and the best heart with ears I have ever been able to share my hurt with.
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group · March 22, 2024
Rex is a great person who helped me get through my difficulties in life. I am better able to express my emotions and identify losses and grief based on the relationships I form. Rex is a person who listens and helps me understand things from a different perspective. Rex has been with me in every session and has seen me in my worst moments. He is someone that I will always remember, someone who has supported me through my difficulties. Rex is someone who has created a positive change in my life.
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group · February 27, 2024
Rex was compassionate and honest. He presented the program very clearly and in a way we could relate to. Highly recommend.
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group · February 27, 2024
He made space for our emotions.
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one-on-one · February 26, 2024
Rex Cearley is an outstanding facilitator. He is such a great listener and has such a big heart. I am so grateful to have had him as a teacher in this program. 10000/10 would recommend anyone dealing with any type of loss/grief to work with Rex.
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one-on-one · February 21, 2024
Mr. Cearley was professional, personable, and flexible. He created a safe, intimate, trusting environment for me to share, question, and express emotion. He truly was a "heart with ears." I highly recommend him as a facilitator and am grateful for the connection I built with him throughout this process.
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group · February 19, 2024
My facilitator Rex was awesome! He is such a a caring and wonderful person. He has helped me tremendously in my time of grief. I will always remember him and how the Grief Recovery Method helped me. Thank you!
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one-on-one · February 19, 2024
Rex, was professional, caring and supportive. He shared his journey to help me understand and deal with my loss. When I was "stuck," he gently guided me with examples and methods from the book that helped me clarify and verbalize my loss to help my recovery. It was apparent that he was totally committed to the Grief Recovery model. I am grateful to him and CAPS for providing this life changing program. I certainly hope that it is made available to those who could benefit to improve their lives and relationships.
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group · February 6, 2024
Mr. Cearley is a blessing to me. He has helped me work through some of the hardest memories/traumas and now I know how to say goodbye and live my life without looking back at those experiences.
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group · January 31, 2024
Rex Cearley is an Amazing instructor!
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group · January 10, 2024
He certainly "walked the talk" of demonstrating a listening heart.
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one-on-one · November 27, 2023
I am so glad I took this course. I have learned a new and improved way in which to view my own grief and the grief of those around me. It was incredibly helpful to have someone so qualified and caring to listen to my words and my stories. I feel so much better now that I have voiced my struggles with loss and life changes. This has been a highly beneficial experience. Thank you Rex!
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one-on-one · November 13, 2023
He is the absolute best! I am so grateful to of had him as a mentor
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group · November 1, 2023
I have never met an individual who has such drive for helping others. His understanding and empathy has filled an empty spot in my heart that has felt so alone for so many years… and for that, I am forever thankful.
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group · November 1, 2023
Rex was the best. He always made sure we were only sharing what we were comfortable sharing and he always made sure we understood our assignment for the following week.
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group · October 9, 2023
I enjoyed having the steps modeled first before I was expected to complete them. It was helpful to see the facilitator show the emotions of loss. It was comforting to feel the pain and be able to talk about feelings.
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one-on-one · October 3, 2023
I just can not sing Rex's praises enough. His personality, demeanor, ability to not judge, he is just phenomenal.
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group · July 18, 2023
Rex is very knowledgeable and is open and available to everyone equally. He models the behavior and course structure that he teaches. He is empathetic and genuine.
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one-on-one · June 16, 2023
The emotions associated with loss are messy, and there was a time when I would have described them as hopelessly so. Not anymore. GRM has helped me actually articulate the exact nature of my loss and the nuances surrounding it, once translated into the recovery components (SES, forgives, apologies). GRM is an incredible tool for finding completion after a loss, in a systematic but humanistic way.
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group · May 19, 2023
The program ('it') helped me look at grief in a completely different way (vs only a death). The "never ask for forgiveness" was another concept that I now look at in a completely different/better way ("make an apology instead"). It helped me remember things and those things were ones that gave be a more balanced view of the other person. It led me to a place where I could see my role in the situation with clarity - and to accept the Grace available to me so that I could heal more and judge less. It also taught me new/better ways of communication with others and strengthened my empathy for myself; showing me that I also needed to forgive and love myself as well at the other. Understanding my STERBs not looking at them as faults but rather as something I can change if I really want to (these STERBs do not control me, they work but only short term which is not good enough for me, and so if I really want what I say I want I can work towards lessening the hold they have on me (one little step at a time). Another big step was validation of the truth that we are the architects of our own discomfort (something I knew but didn't understand the degree in which it actually is a broader truth vs. a hunch, and that I have more control over changing it than I had been willing to acknowledge). I learned that if you discount it you have given yourself the okay to be a victim vs. the author of your healing. Learning the difference between Guilt and wishing things could have been Different, Better, or More (and recognizing them as tools to help bring visibility to what is incomplete). And it's very interesting that this attitude of responsibility for our own feelings and actions starts with very early "influence learning". It's a way to get stuck, not a way to release what chokes us. The program opened my eyes to Cumulative Loss and the effects on my health and happiness. It is a great reminder to share positive thoughts and feelings as they occur vs. waiting until it is too late. And lastly release the need to fix yourself and others - be willing to go through the process and allow others to do the same (we are all unique).
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one-on-one · April 28, 2023
This program combined other therapy aspects I've used in the past & I learned a new way to view grief. My grief event surfaces every so often. The program was instructional but it didn't give me immediate relief. I'm hopeful that using this program will make a difference the next time I revisit this loss/grief. My specialist, Rex Cearley, did a wonderful job presenting the programs & helping me through the steps. He is a wonderful, caring, insightful man.
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group · March 27, 2023
It helped me see how things other than a death can be viewed as grief and gave me some coping skills to help children with all kinds of grief.
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group · March 27, 2023
I have only briefly tried to apply these learnings as our class recently finished. The program opened my eyes to things that I had not considered. It helped reframe how I thought about certain things. The first time I read about a couple of the ideas I wasn't in agreement and so I questioned them and even after the answer was given I still wasn't sure, however by the end of the course and having read the book and done the work I was convinced. I have a new and I believe better perspective that will help me be a better teach for children and a better person overall. e.g. knowing that I don't need to "fix it" is a huge relief. Confirming things I already believe and try to practice e.g. listening with love and kindness gave me confidence and flexibility to absorb and practice new/different ideas. Of particular importance are the foundational tools: Emotional Energy Checklist and "Letter". These tools will help ensure that I stay of track with the best way to help children. Lastly, this class led me to sign up for The Grief Recovery Method course which I believe will help me help children better because I will soon be in a better place myself.
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group · February 1, 2023
Wonderful has helped me deal with emotional loss, is helping me to grow emotionally, and is helping me see the good in others.
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workshop · September 21, 2022
It has helped me understand the various aspects of the different kinds of grief, many of which I have experienced and how to respond on a personal and social level.
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group · September 16, 2022
It has worked for me because it has help me understand who and why I am feeling this feeling
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group · July 28, 2022
It made me have a clearer perspective on all the different emotions people show.
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group · July 28, 2022
Outstanding way
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group · July 28, 2022
The Grief Recovery Program has helped me to address my own personal issues with dealing with the losses I have experienced in life. It help me to realize that my emotions are valid and necessary in working through to my recovery.
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group · July 26, 2022
I feel as if the backpack has been lifted that I have carried for years. I am so glad I commited to do this group in its entirety. Thanks so much for this!! More people need to know about this!! I will definitely spread the word.!!
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group · July 26, 2022
Just completed the program last night and already today I noticed I could concentrate more easily, some anxieties were not present, I wasn't nearly so clumsy and overall,... it was simply easier to breathe. Thank you for this ❤️
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group · May 24, 2022
I lost my sister and brother in law in one week. We were extremely close and I was so lost
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group · May 24, 2022
Provided me with a method/plan to work through my grief.
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group · March 10, 2022
Learned specific techniques on how to speak to children when it comes to grief. I also realized a lot of behaviors I was doing myself that I now know how to better handle.
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group · March 2, 2022
It was outstanding
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group · March 2, 2022
This program provided all the tools to process my losses in a gentle and healing way. Thank you!
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group · March 2, 2022
Has helped me to health old wounds with my mother, discover all the good moments and let the hurt go, and be emotionally healthy aging. my relationship with her has improved I forgive my mom, not because what she did was right but for my own happiness.
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group · March 2, 2022
I thought the program was outstanding. When I try to select that, is selects all of them and I can't deselect the other ones. I appreciate how this helped me with my personal life and my professional nursing career. I have a new toolbox to help myself, my friends/family and my patients.
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group · March 2, 2022
I think the incomplete relationship with my father has deeply affected my whole life and my current relationships and choices. I needed to let all of that go before I could affect real and lasting change in my life and relationships. Through the Grief Recovery Method, I have realized some uncomfortable truths about my relationships and myself which need to be addressed. This program has given me the tools to do the hard work while giving myself grace. I am applying everything I have learned to all my greatest relationships.
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group · February 7, 2022
This program has made me to evaluate the way I handled grief in the past and help me make significant changes in how I view my mental anguish during loss and traumatic situations. I have a child who has autism and he is the reason I took the class. After what I learned from this book, even though he is non-verbal, I have adapted the lessons into pictures and unwritten expressions, that he may understand what feelings he is expressing and why. Rex Cearley made himself accessible throughout the whole program and has encouraged us to take the Grief Recovery Method on top of the Helping Children with Loss. This will be a long haul for my family, but I now feel a weight off my shoulders, because of the way the class was presented and the information it contained. Looking forward to the Grief Recovery Method!
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group · February 7, 2022
I have a special needs son that is 5. He has autism and nonverbal. During the class we lost my sister and brother-in-law.to covid. He was very attached to them. He saw them several times a week. I was overwhelmed with grief, but I needed help for him. How it turned out was by helping him I was also helped myself. Bing able to talk to the teacher for advice outside of class was so huge!!!
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group · February 7, 2022
Helping Children with Loss was an eye opening course for me. It not only gave me insight on how to help my son but on my own grief issues. I plan to go through The Greif Recovery Method at a later date and i am already suggesting the courses and books to other people.
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group · October 26, 2021
So far has give me understanding as better ways to deal with my kids grief
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group · October 19, 2021
This program has taught me that even though I think I was helping people by saying some of the Myths it was actually hurting them more. It makes me think before I talk now and try to do the best that I can do to help my kiddos through the grief.
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group · October 19, 2021
Have been able to communicate better with the children in my life.
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group · October 19, 2021
Introduction for grief management.
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group · October 19, 2021
In my opinion, this program will benefit anyone working with children and families in any capacity. I have worked with children and families for over 30 years. After covering the material presented in this class, I have thought back over numerous interactions in my work where I said things that were not helpful to those suffering loss. This was not my intention and I regret these mistakes. I learned a lot from this class and just wish I would have been exposed to these methods sooner. The most beneficial part for me was learning what someone should NOT say to someone suffering from loss.
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online · July 28, 2021
I have new tools that I can use going forward to be more honest and helpful about how grief is handled in my life and in the lives of the peopleI care about.
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group · July 26, 2021
Grief Recovery has changed the way I think and the way I parent my children. I always assumed that grief was something you have to keep to yourself and keep pushing. To sit in class and have someone truly listen to me and hear me changed my life! I have these tools now to help me process and work through anything that my cause me grief/sadness.
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group · July 8, 2021
I feel more equipped to be helpful when children that I am working with or in my personal life experience a loss or grief. I now recognize myths about grief that many perpetuate and see the negative ramifications of these myths as well as the STERBs that are often used to avoid or postpone dealing with these normal emotions. I do not believe I will ever approach a loss the same since completing the program, "When Children Grieve" and I think that is a very good thing! I will always now strive to be a heart with ears and will focus much less on trying to fix things. I will definitely "go first" and share my emotions to invite the young people in my life to share their feelings if they are able and willing.
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group · July 8, 2021
It made me look at the myths I’d grown up with and how easily they were accepted and passed on. I have already my started changing my approach to helping others process losses.
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group · April 27, 2021
I just finished and have not put into full use, but from day one I had a different way of looking at grief. My own grief and the grief of my children. I am looking forward to extending my understanding and knowledge by going through other Grief Recovery classes.
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group · April 20, 2021
It has helped me recognize opportunities to better support my daughter in talking about her emotions surrounding her father's incarceration.
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one-on-one · December 8, 2020
In my profession, there have frequently been times when emotions are not closed. The GRM has given me a tool to reflect and close that experience when resolution with the other party is not possible. It is a process that I would love to be trained in to offer with the employees I supervise to help them do the same thing.
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group · December 13, 1976
Rex is ao wonderful so informative on the correct information on grieving, he is non judgemental and a great listener and always will be here for me!
