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Sandi Derby, Trainer, GRI

Sandi Derby, Trainer, GRI

Advanced Certified

Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist

Simi Valley, CA

Online AvailableIn-PersonAccepting Clients
5.0 (116 reviews)

About Sandi

Programs offered: Grief Recovery Method, Private Trainings, Grief Recovery Method 2 1/2 Day Workshop Pet Loss, Online Grief Recovery Method, Helping Children With Loss, Life CoachingSandi Derby was born in a naval hospital in Portsmouth, Virginia, and raised across multiple states before her family eventually settled in Upstate New York. Behind the appearance of a "normal" family life, Sandi endured years of physical, SA, and verbal abuse from the age of 2 to 15. In a household where appearances were everything and secrets were buried, she learned to cope the only way she knew how—through denial and repression.As an adult, Sandi moved to Florida and later to California, where she channeled her energy into corporate success and fitness. Driven by a deep, unresolved sense of inadequacy rooted in childhood trauma, she believed that achievement and physical perfection could silence the internal pain. But neither career success nor substance use could fill the void. By 2003, Sandi had reached the position of Vice President of Sales and Marketing—while secretly battling a daily addiction to crystal meth.In 2005, after confronting the reality of her past, Sandi made the courageous decision to walk away from drugs. A year later, she discovered the Grief Recovery Method®, which gave her the tools and structure to begin true healing. Over time, she not only transformed her own life but became passionate about helping others do the same.In 2010, Sandi became a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist®, and later earned the designation of Advanced Specialist and now Trainer for The Grief Recovery Institute. Today, she is an author, speaker, life coach, and the founder of Grief Unchained, an organization dedicated to supporting individuals who are healing from deep emotional wounds of any kind.Sandi holds a BS in Business Administration and lives in Southern California. Her work is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the possibility of healing, no matter how deep the pain.

Programs Offered

One-on-One Support
Support Groups
Helping Children With Loss
Pet Loss Support
2 1/2 Day Personal Workshops
One-on-One Online Support

Reviews & Testimonials

5.0
116 reviews
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GRM Participant

Jan 2026

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My Experience

I wish I had a group like this to heal my grief 14 years ago. Now that I've experienced one like it, I feel inspired and motivated to see how I can bring this work into my communities! Sandi is an exceptional speaker who engaged, supported, and encouraged each and every one of us. She has tremendous knowledge and expertise on the subject as well as on marketing--two huge bonuses for those of us trying to get out there to create opportunities to reduce isolation and pain while promote healing and connection! I think what would have helped is to encourage us to take bio breaks as needed outside of the designated breaks since the trainings can be quite long! I haven't poked around in the portal yet, but I think it would be helpful to know at the beginning of the training whether or not the slides would be shared with us. Sandi did let us know that we can take screenshots, but having the slides would make things a lot easier and would have helped me be more present. Thank you again for an unforgettable experience. I am so grateful to be able to experience this depth of recovery and look forward to even more.

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GRM Participant

Jan 2026

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My Experience

I signed up with a heart to help others, I was overwhelmed by how much this training helped me too.

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GRM Participant

Jan 2026

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My Experience

The grief recovery method training put into perspective for me how grief is the foundation on which we are raised upon. Going through this training has lifted me, removed years of boulders and rocks I didn't believe ever could be removed. Today, I am lighter and can breathe better. My heart feels clearer.

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GRM Participant

Jan 2026

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My Experience

I cannot begin to express how this 4-day extravaganza of learning, healing, heart-sharing & heart-witnessing has transformed my perspective, my self, and my body, but I'll do my best to convey what I can. Sandi is hands-down amazing, one-of-a-kind, and highly skilled in this arena, and her skillset paired with your marketing strategies has made it quite clear to me that I'm strongly called to become a successful GRM Specialist. I shared with Sandi at the end of the training in our goodbye speeches, that I'm a 96% introvert who begrudgingly registered for this group training (because my human dislikes group work and break-out rooms, and I'm so glad I listened to my knowing in signing up for this because Sandi sharing her story in the way she did, from the heart and yet not at all anesthetized, spoke to me in a big way. I've been struggling to find & land my calling since I retired from holistic physio and closed my practice due to burn-out and compassion fatigue, and I realized very quickly from listening to Sandi's story that that I was intuitively or spiritually called to register for this training because this is my calling. The group format was highly valuable in learning & relating to others, and offered a breadth & depth I wouldn't have ever reached doing this entirely on my own. I'm excited to complete the online certification and weave this training into my website & current caseload. Sandi is an inspiration - her story parallels mine in a lot of ways, and while we both have our own unique experiences, visions, & knowledge, it was incredibly valuable for me to see someone on the other side of the hard life living their dream.

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GRM Participant

Jan 2026

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My Experience

When I lost my son there was absolutely no type of support anywhere for me someone referred me to the grief recovery method support group in my experience there instantly inspired me to want to be a bigger part of spreading this type of help. Coming to the 4-day certification and being taught by Sandy Derby I am a better woman I am a better grief specialist because of it I would absolutely recommend this to everyone

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