A Grief Support Blog

This blog will allow you the opportunity to acquire both support and guidance after experiencing a significant loss.

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Quick fixes don't work with Grief

The paint on the wall of my living room is cracked and peeling. There are major gashes in the wall under some of the peeling paint - those of you with children will understand. The room must be repainted. I have purchased a can of paint, a roller, and a brush. I apply the paint with roller and brush directly over the old cracked peeling paint and gashes. I am crazy - yes?

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  • Nov 27, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Why fear is often disguised as humor

NEWS:

Gallows Humor - GRI Update

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  • Nov 07, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Grief definition: We can't find the guy who gave us one of the best

"The feeling of reaching out for someone who has always been there, only to discover that when I need her one more time, she is no longer there."

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  • Sep 30, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Pet loss grief: You can't replace a loved one and you can't replace a beloved pet either

"Honey, I'm sorry to tell you this, but your father passed away last night.  I don't want you to feel bad.  This weekend, we'll get you a new dad."

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  • Sep 24, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Empty nest syndrome or emptiness? Probably both

"It’s a big house. I never realized how big it was until it was empty." Those might be mom’s thoughts as she sits alone drinking a morning coffee, contemplating her day. Her youngest child has gone away to college or has left home to wed or start a career. Mom is left with no job and a feeling of no longer being of value.

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  • Sep 23, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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The events leading up to the Santana High School shooting

On March 5, 2001, Charles “Andy” Williams went to school armed with a .22 caliber revolver. On Thursday, August 14, 2002, “Andy” was sentenced to 50 years to life for the shooting deaths of two classmates and the wounding of thirteen others.

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  • Sep 23, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Grief by any other name; Fort Bragg autopsy

An enormous amount of time, energy, emotion, and money will be spent looking for answers and explanations in the aftermath of the Fort Bragg cluster of murders. There will be lots of talk of post-traumatic stress syndrome, depression, stress, and anger. The pundits-that-be may even coin a new phrase to explain why returning U.S. soldiers murder or were murdered by their spouses.

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  • Aug 07, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Financial Grief: Can a downturn create grief?

In the past couple weeks we have seen tens of thousands of words written in major publications about the plight of retirees and others who depend on investments to support their golden years. Relatively little has been written about recovering from the emotional wounds that invariably accompany financial loss and insecurity.

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  • Jul 26, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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Avoiding unhelpful myths and traps after losing a child

Undoubtedly, the family and loved ones of Samantha Runnion are devastated by the tragic, incomprehensible death of the precious little girl who was there, then gone, and will not return.

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  • Jul 02, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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9/11 Tragedy: What a difference a day makes

Memorial Day as we know it today began as Decoration Day in 1866 in upstate New York after the cessation of the Civil War. First conceived as a homage to those who had given their lives, it soon evolved to also honor those who had survived. Within two years it was renamed Memorial Day, and over time came to symbolize our community need to stay ever mindful of those who had sacrificed their lives for our freedoms. Although the official birth of this annual event was in the North, the Southern states had parallel ceremonies, which were eventually joined as the national holiday we commemorate every year.

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  • May 03, 2002
  • Russell Friedman
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