Don't wait to collapse at 42 as I did. I did not know my own grief, nor able to communicate my feelings. I self-described it as"male challenged" believingI had to be strong for everything and do it all alone.

Have survived array of LOSSES and CHANGES: my role, mom, a best friend, soulfriend / wife Joan simultaneous to dad'. They are all gone, as seemed my LIFE. Sold home. Navigated losses of energy, loss of confidence in various institutions, and doubted my self. The Jeff-Alone journey began. Grieved and Grew. Already a professional grief guide, became more personally seasoned, and added Grief Recovery's clear methodical healing programme for myself, then, others as I formed grief support teams. In2024-25 added losses of car to a...